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"Why Do They Kill?"
by David Adams

In September 2007,
Vanderbilt University Press is
releasing a book by David Adams,
Co-Director of Emerge. Entitled "Why
Do They Kill? Men Who Murder Their
Intimate Partners," this book is an
in depth look at domestic violence
homicides or attempted homicides and
contains profiles of different
killer types.
Moving backwards from the murders
they committed through their adult
lives, relationship histories, and
their childhoods, the author sought
to
understand what motivates the men to
kill.
Why Do They Kill? is the first
book to profile different types of
wife killers, and to examine the
courtship patterns of abusive men.
The author shows that wife murders
are not, for the most part, "crimes
of passion," but the culmination of
lifelong predisposing factors of the
men who murder, and that many
elements of their crimes are
foretold by their past behavior in
intimate relationships. Key turning
points of these relationships
include the first emergence of the
man's violence, his blaming of the
victim, her attempts to resist, his
escalation, her attempts to end the
relationship, and his punishment for
her defiance.
Critical perspective on the men's
accounts comes from interviews with
victims of attempted homicide
(standing in for the murder victims)
who survived shootings, stabbings,
and strangulation. These women
detail their partners' escalating
patterns of child abuse, sexual
violence, terroristic threats, and
stalking. The section on
help-seeking patterns of victims
helps to dispel notions of "learned
helplessness" among victims.
Excerpt 1:
(from Chapter 4: The Killer's
Upbringings)
A number of the men said that, while
once fearful of their fathers who
abused their mothers, they had
learned to emulate them in their
treatment of their partners. There
appeared to be two aspects of this.
One was to develop a general dislike
and antipathy towards women. The
other was to develop a tough and
sometimes hypermasculine exterior.
When his parents were still
living together, Everett had
always defended his mother
against his father's attacks. He
continued to live with his
mother for several years after
his parents divorce and had very
little contact with his father.
After a visit with his father
when he was fifteen, Everett
decided to live with him in
another city, where his father
inducted him into a life of
crime. Asked what had influenced
him to make this decision,
Everett said, "I was attracted
to my father's philosophy which
was to do unto others before
they do unto you. I was just
tired of being scared. Together
we was strong and nobody could
beat us."
Explaining how his upbringing had
influenced him, Emmit said "Maybe
because of my father, we was so
scared and mentally beaten
(referring to his mothers, sisters
and himself). The turning point came
when I was fifteen. My brother,
Elroy, used to beat on me real bad
every single day. He would degrade
me in front of my friends an shit
but I couldn't do anything 'cause he
was my father's favorite. Then one
day, I beat him bad and after that
he never touched me again. And I was
my father's favorite after that!"
Excerpt 2:
(from Chapter 7: Patterns of
Possession and Punishment)
Though threats of violence would
logically seem to lessen the need
for physical assaults, this did not
seem to be the case for the
perpetrators I interviewed. Not only
did their threats become more
frequent and serious over time but
so too did their physical violence.
This was because their usual threats
and level of violence had failed to
prevent their partners from seeking
to end the relationship or from
otherwise defying them. Over time,
even their increasingly brutal
assaults were no longer working.
Already having failed their primary
mission of maintaining the
relationship, many concluded "the
next best thing" was to kill their
estranged partner. As several
killers stated, killing at least
insured that "no one else would have
her". Killing one's partner
communicates not only the ultimate
act of control but also of ownership
since one prerogative of ownership
is to destroy that which is no
longer of use to us. Recall John's
chilling words about the importance
of having sex with his wife, Debra,
shortly before killing her: "It was
a way of preserving us as a couple
forever" John added that he also
intended to show the other man whom
he assumed to be Debra's new partner
that, "I was the last to have her".
John was attempting to proclaim his
eternal ownership of her.
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Emerge is pleased to announce that
we are offering an opportunity to
order this book directly from our
office. Orders will receive a
discounted price of $25 (with $3
S/H)
for the first 100 copies sold,
and the book will be mailed out by
August 27th.
Ordering directly from Emerge means
you will be supporting our agency in
its work to stop domestic violence,
and each order from our office will
be shipped with an autographed copy!
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